Sometimes I’m glad I’m not “plugged in” to viral internet things, but this one is genuinely interesting. As a male who is perhaps over-confident, I don’t see that as an insult at all. As I’ve told my wife, even when we were dating, I have no reason to be jealous of other guys because I know who she’s gonna be sleeping next to at night, me.

I am confident that my “hotness” is an amalgamation of my physical looks and personality. Even when I don’t or didn’t look my best, I know that my demeanor is attractive due to being generous, attentive, and very giving in bed.

But then this does remind me of when a female friend in college said something similar to me. I wish I could remember her exact words, but it was something along the lines of me not being an “ultra-hotty”. I was definitely pissed at the assertion, but even then I knew it stemmed from my own insecurities and that she wasn’t trying to insult me. Ahh, the fragile male ego. Some of us grow out of it eventually. Takes a lot of soul searching, introspection, and life experiences though. Getting laid helps 😝